You know, life, even at the best of times - still has some sucky bits.
Lately, I've got a bit tired of listening to moaning. I've got to confess, I've been a bit moany myself and the listening to moaning is only making it worse.
One thing I like to do, is think about someone elses difficulties/problems etc for a while. Nothing like a bit of perspective to make one moan a bit less.
The other thing that often works - is being thankful. Sure life is hard at times, and we all need people we can talk to about our difficulties - but our focus needs to be shifted if it's about us all the time. We weren't put on this planet for ourselves.
So, just a random post on some things I am thankful for - might become a regular:
- health - even though this is an ongoing battle for me - 13 weeks on from being close to death, I am alive, and mostly well. And I am greatful. I even got told today that I am a miracle - for my "wellness". Thank you God.
- my family - my princess A who is so delightful at the moment. My hubby who is a real treasure. The wider extensions who all just add that bit extra to our lives. The little man who I am longing to meet.
- our vehicles - they are old and shabby in places, but we have two of them (which makes life WAY easier) and they both still pass their warrants with minimal work required. I often think how I'd like a "better" car - but at the moment, they are doing us just fine.
- our home - we have worked hard to renovate it, get it nice and make it ours. It is a stepping stone - but it is a blessing. We are beginning to reap the rewards of our hard work.
- friendship - I like to think that there are many different "shapes" and "colours" of friends. Some fit better together than others - but they each add their own bit of colour to life.
In all of the above things, I could very well find things to moan about. But I'd rather live happy.
What things are you thankful for?
